Question: Acharya Ji, my family keeps asking that my I am never interested in doing general stuff. They keep asking what I want to do, and where I want to go. My reply to them always is, that – “I do not know.”
I don’t want to do this, that I know. But I do not know what I want to do. This disturbs me a lot.
How can I get the concern of others get out of my mind?
Acharya Prashant Ji: That’s alright. That is often how it begins. “This is not where I belong” – one has to be sure of that.
Questioner: They laugh at me, mock me. They say that if you do not know anything…..
Acharya Prashant Ji: If you do not bother about so many things, why do you bother about ‘this thing’?
Remember that, botheration is a choice. It is a value decision. You say, “I value the opinion others have of me.” It is not something natural, or spontaneous. It is a decision that you make.


